I reblog things that are fannish, queer, happy, related to women and their awesomeness, or some combination thereof. Also porn. (Fair warning: somethings that I reblog are NSFW.)
Current fandoms: Sleepy Hollow, Elementary, Merlin. Also I'm a Teen Wolf ex-pat who occasionally reblogs TW stuff out of nostalgia, rage, and wistfulness.
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It made me so sad to read scoutsxhonor answer a question about their Stiles characterization and explain why they don’t think of their Stiles as selfish, but rather as practicing self-care.
There are so many romance tropes that, when translated into real life, mean complete and under clusterfuck for relationships, and it’s deeply scary to me that authors who write about relationships with characters who think about their own goals and boundaries and mental health have to justify that.
In that spirit, I’m mulling over the the thought of a Self-Care Fest. People in relationships practice self-care. Establishing boundaries. Saying no to things they don’t want to do.
Or, idk, an Unhealthy Romance Trope fest, where you pick something like “stalking” or “suicidal thoughts” or “epic co-dependence” and undermine by the trope by having characters realize they’re in a bad spot and working to make the relationship better. Or getting out of it.
It could be a celebration of wonderful relationships. Or a celebration of the difficulty of building wonderful relationships. Or I dunno. Just having thoughts in my brain.